In light of beginning a new and exciting relationship with a genuine and sincere man, I of course get an unexpected message. My ex boyfriend from the summer sends me a message saying his recent relationship has failed, he misses me, he made a mistake and “devalued” the relationship we had. He wants to move back to California because thats where I’ll be. Can’t I just be happy for one day without this kind of anxiety? It’s not my fault we lived together and were very serious and you told me you loved me, then a week after I moved you got back with your ex and told me to delete your number. Who are you to tell me you haven’t been happy with your decision?